The House is open Saturday nights and every other Friday. Please check our Party Dates for more information.

party dates

Please plan to be at The House by 10:30pm. If you cannot make it by then, please email us to cancel your reservation.

Upcoming Parties

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Saturday, November 8th @ 7pm
Flip Cup Game Night

Ok if you know the game we are sure you like it. There will be 5 cups set upside down on a table and you flip them over one handed. there will be 8 couples who will play for first and second places. First place will be 50 and second place a HOUSE pass. So get your reservations in before we fill up. PS. I do want to thank all of you for your support. I love to have a safe place for people to enjoy life as they want. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room for rent. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com We are BYOB as well.

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Friday, November 14th @ 7pm
Friday Night Female Fantasy Night

MALES PLEASE READ: all males will be held to the upmost respect. Any disrespect shown towards females or other males. You will be asked to leave the party. We will allow between 35 guys, and 15 to 20 females into the party. Your plan for the evening is up to you. Whether you would like to observe- to find 1 guy, 2, or 10- it is all about the ladies’ desire. We have quite a few accommodations that can meet your need, such as our colored card method- where you get cards to fill out your do’s and dont's and the room you reserve for an allotted time, then you hand them out to the guys you choose to participate in your wildest fantasy’s come true. Blair PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room for rent. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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Saturday, November 15th @ 7pm
Onesie & PJ Party

Ok Our yearly Onesie & PJ Party. No you do not have to dress up. But would be nice to see you dressed. Come in your best ONESIE or PJs. It can be whatever you want. Super Hero, Cartoon, Anime, Sexy, or something of your own.. We are going to throw in a fun game of Truth or Dare for those of you who are interested in playing. PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room for rent. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com We furnish soft drinks, as well as food and snacks. In our on-premise rooms you will find an assortment of personal items including condoms, lube, and wipes that make the lifestyle exploration clean and safe. We are BYOB as well. Party is from 7pm till 2am. Blair

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Saturday, November 22nd @ 7pm
Casino Night

Come play some of your favorite casino games here at THE HOUSE. We will have Roulette, 3 card poker and Black Jack. When you arrive you will receive X amount of chips to play with. You can choose to play games with your chips or barter for your chips. Examples, Begging, asking friends for chips, showing something for chips. Entirely up to you. Some tables will open at 9pm the rest at 10:30. At 1:00 a.m. all games will shut down and the couple with the most chips wins a prize. You won't be disappointed in the prize. Make your reservations ASAP before we fill up. Don't miss the fun... get your reservation request in now so you can be in the drawing for the party. See you all soon! B&A THE HOUSE

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A Safe Space to Explore

We are a on-premise party in lifestyle Raleigh, North Carolina

Reservation Requests Only

The only way to get into the party, is to send us a reservation request. Reservations are only made here on this website. We do not consider any requests from lifestyle websites a reservation.

Party Dates

No Pressure

There is absolutely NO pressure and no one is required to do anything that they do not wish to do. Great for new couples, soft swingers and experienced alike. No membership fees or dues.

A Safe Space

The purpose of our parties is to provide a place that is more than a traditional "swing club". It is an adult social lifestyle party, a place where people are free to explore their sexuality in a fun, but safe space social setting without pressure.

Communication

The House is many different things to many different people, however it is not for everyone. Your partner and relationship must be the highest priority in your involvement at The House. Constant, effective communication is essential to your success. We recommend that couples make joint decisions without pressure or persuasion. Any suggestions of coercion will not be tolerated.

Reservations By Request Only

We are not open to the general public

For your protection

Anyone that wishes to come to a party must sign an agreement form in order to be admitted to our party. The agreement form that you sign states that you understand this is a private adult party and you are not offended by nudity or adult situations. It also states that if you are a member of the media or law enforcement, you are at our club of your own free will and not here to gather anyone's personal information or make anyone's personal information/identity known to the general public. We do not sell or give out any of your information to anyone for any reason; we value your privacy as we do our own. There is no charge for our party, however we do accept donations to help cover the cost.